Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and if you haven’t yet met that perfect someone, here are a few quick tips to help you attract him/her into your life.

1. Be authentic/True to yourself-

When you first meet someone, it’s tempting to want to talk about yourself so that you sound impressive. But this can have the reverse effect, and you could come off as self-absorbed. Try to be the one asking questions and really listen. People love to talk about themselves, and they will feel closer to you when they do.

2. Know what you want and what you don’t want-

Be clear with yourself about the qualities you want in a partner and what qualities are deal breakers. Write down what your ideal mate would be like. This will save you tons of time sifting through the weeds.

3. Be playful-

Don’t take yourself or your dating experiences too seriously. Life is short. Be fun and playful and everyone will have a good time whatever the outcome.

4. Be confident and show it-

Know that you’re worthy of love and expect to be treated only with respect. Put your best foot forward, take care of yourself, and take pride in how you look. When you look your best, you feel your best, and that’s extremely attractive.

5. Be open-minded and take risks-

You never know what’s around the corner. Sometimes life takes us to unexpected places. Don’t be so rigid in your thinking that you turn down opportunities that could potentially turn into something great. Take a chance now and again.